Be My Friend In Exile has seen 1,458 performances during 594 concerts with 915 bands at 241 venues in 36 locations.

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Date Concert Venue Location
Jul 26, 2026
JK Flesh Oslo London, England, United Kingdom
Aug 05, 2026
HTRK Institute of Contemporary Arts London, England, United Kingdom
Aug 08, 2026
Four Tet Finsbury Park London, England, United Kingdom
Aug 23, 2026
OUTBREAK FEST 2026
Deftones / Interpol / AFI / IDLES / JPEGMAFIA / Amyl and the Sniffers / Basement / EsDeeKid / Wisp / Mannequin Pussy / Deafheaven / Salem / Show Me The Body / Blawan / Ecca Vandal / ¥ØU$UK€ ¥UK1MAT$U / ¥ØU$UK€ ¥UK1MAT$U / Wisp (UK)
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Victoria Park London, England, United Kingdom
Oct 24, 2026
Autechre Magazine London London, England, United Kingdom

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Date Concert Venue Location
Nov 09, 2017 –
Nov 12, 2017
Le Guess Who? 2017
Black Lips / Tune-Yards / Perfume Genius / Sun Kil Moon / Liars / Kevin Morby / John Maus / Shabazz Palaces / Thurston Moore / Grouper / Mount Eerie / Moon Duo / Gonjasufi / The Soft Moon / Sevdaliza / Julianna Barwick / Metz / Cate Le Bon / Weyes Blood / Jesca Hoop / Protomartyr / Aldous Harding / James Holden / Julie Byrne / Juana Molina / Pharoah Sanders / Jenny Hval / Ben Frost / Pissed Jeans / Linton Kwesi Johnson / Yves Tumor / William Basinski / Jane Weaver / Kelly Lee Owens / Willis Earl Beal / Zeal & Ardor / Sudan Archives / Prurient / dälek / Tiny Vipers / Pharmakon / Mozart's Sister / Mary Margaret O'Hara / Kane Strang / Gas (Wolfgang Voigt) / The Ex / Sun Ra Arkestra / Visible Cloaks / Altın Gün / Kutmah / Den Sorte Skole / Rabit / Natasha Kmeto / Insecure Men / Essaie Pas / Jambinai / Midnight Sister / Keiji Haino / Richard Youngs / Shabaka and the Ancestors / Matana Roberts / H. Hawkline / Marisa Anderson / FLOHIO / Moor Mother / Dedekind Cut / Hieroglyphic Being / Peter Brötzmann / Sarah Davachi / Aquaserge / Tom Rogerson / Yat-Kha / Les Amazones d’Afrique / Jerusalem In My Heart / Le Mystère des Voix Bulgares / Spring Heel Jack / Coby Sey / Lost Horizons / Thurston Moore Group / Como Mamas / thisquietarmy / Fhloston Paradigm / Madensuyu / Dylan Carlson / Big|Brave / Liu Fang / Oiseaux-Tempête / Mario Batkovic / Robert Aiki Aubrey Lowe / Dark Buddha Rising / Samara Lubelski / Ex-easter Island Head / Stella Chiweshe / Sekou Kouyate / Jessica Moss / Steve Beresford / Farai / Gerard Bouwhuis / Greg Fox / Han Bennink / Ben Shemie / OCnotes / Sex Swing / Ellen Arkbro / Heather Leigh / Nadah El Shazly / ekin fil / ICP Orchestra / K Á R Y Y N / PROTO IDIOT / XAM Duo / Steven Warwick / Ibaaku / Joris Roelofs / Maalem Houssam Guinia / Brian Case / Hellvete / Linda Sharrock / Ashtoreth / Orphax / Innerwoud / Radio Filharmonisch Orkest / Ernst Glerum / Mary Oliver / The Bug Vs Dylan Carlson of Earth / The Star Pillow / Greetje Bijma / Marcia Bassett / Martijn Comes / Violent Magic Orchestra / Vampilia / Farida And The Iraqi Maqam Ensemble / Terrie Ex / Leo Svirsky / Omri Ziegele / Yann Gourdon / Nora Mulder Show all bands
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TivoliVredenburg Utrecht, Utrecht, Netherlands
Dec 06, 2013 –
Dec 09, 2013
Madeira Dig Festival 2013
Grouper / William Basinski / Emptyset / Pharmakon / Clara Hill / Patric Catani / Marcus Fjellström / Candie Hank / Tarik Barri / Pierce Warnecke
Casa das Mudas Art Centre Calheta, Madeira, Portugal
Oct 12, 2014 –
Oct 18, 2014
Unsound Festival 2014
Swans / Pharmakon / Ben Frost / Deathprod / Dopplereffekt / Hildur Guðnadóttir / Karen Gwyer / Lichens / Nurse With Wound / Cyclobe / Grouper
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Various Venues Kraków, Lesser Poland, Poland
May 27, 2014
Swans / Jenny Hval
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Electric Brixton London, England, United Kingdom

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Most Recent Concerts All 594 Concerts →

Date Concert Venue Location
Jun 30, 2026
Show Me The Body
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The Cause at 60 Dock Road (Outside) London, England, United Kingdom
Jun 14, 2026
YHWH Nailgun
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Marble Arch London, England, United Kingdom
Jun 03, 2026
Jenny Hval / Miryam Solomon / Rosie Turton
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Institute of Contemporary Arts London, England, United Kingdom
May 29, 2026
Zanias The Black Heart London, England, United Kingdom
Apr 24, 2026
Kowloon Walled City The Black Heart London, England, United Kingdom

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William Basinski / Ebe Oke / Frankie on Nov 18, 2023 [380-small]

William Basinski / Ebe Oke / Frankie
Nov 18, 2023
 London, England, United Kingdom

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Eartheater on Nov 13, 2023 [378-small]

Eartheater
Nov 13, 2023
 London, England, United Kingdom

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Bucket List All 1 →
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Concerts Per YearAll Years →
Top Bands All 915 →
Grouper 19 concerts
Shellac 18 concerts
Swans 15 concerts
Deerhoof 14 concerts
Susan George Booth 11 concerts
Top Genres
Experimental 693 performances
Electronic 461 performances
Noise Rock 364 performances
Indie Rock 356 performances
Indie 338 performances
Top Daily Streaks
Oct 7 - 16, 2022 10 days
Oct 11 - 18, 2015 8 days
Oct 12 - 18, 2014 7 days
Nov 30 - Dec 5, 2014 6 days
Jul 25 - 29, 2019 5 days
Top Venues All 241 →
Cafe OTO 33 concerts
KOKO 16 concerts
Scala 13 concerts
Corsica Studios 12 concerts
The Shacklewell Arms 12 concerts
Top Locations All 36 →
London, England, United Kingdom 525 concerts
Barcelona, Catalonia, Spain 11 concerts
Calheta, Madeira, Portugal 4 concerts
Katowice, Silesia, Poland 4 concerts
Birmingham, England, United Kingdom 3 concerts
Grand Totals
Performances Seen 1,458
Bands Seen 915
Concerts Attended 594
Venues Visited 241
Locations Visited 36